May 24, 2014

“Respect is what we owe; love, what we give.”
Philip James Bailey
Every life of a person needs to have and gain respect. Even if the young or old ones, they need to be respected and be respectful. But, what is really mean by RESPECT? Then, the elder answered “Respect is when you do a right way and they just follow you.” Boom!! A kid answered too “We born to be happy and have peace and it’s RESPECT”

WOW!! People know about it but we are not sure if one of us doing it in a right way.

But it’s up to the person. If there is respect for sure there is love and peace.  
Though it’s hard for everyone to do so
God can teach us ♥
“You Are Love”
-Laura Story-
You are justice for every oppression
You’re forgiveness for every confession
You are beauty, goodness, blessing
You are love
Well, we indeed have different stories about respect.  amhh…Try to read and reflect the fable below. You might know how does one action can change one’s emotion.  I got this story from this site (click here


      In the fairies kingdom lived a young girl called Claire and was known as the ugly fairy. She was 17 years old, and had been hiding at home during all her life because she was ashamed of her aspect. The ugly fairy was only leaving her house once a month to go to the fairies ceremony, where the old fairies were sharing their knowledge and experiences with the rest of the fairies. Claire was always wearing a mask, when she was going out to rescue a child on a mission, the child always ended up saying to Claire: “Go away, go away ugly fairy”, and the poor fairy was always very sad.

○ Five elements of Respect 

*Looking oneself in the mirror


Do you remember the golden rule of Confucius? amhh.. If you had read his books and words maybe you would remember this:
“Don’t do unto others what you don’t want others to do unto you.” ― Confucius
Reflection is the best things to do to gain respect and to give respect to others.  You can be respected if your started it in yourself.

*Give way

Sometimes, people don’t respect us because we don’t give respect to them. 
Even decisions should be respected and bow!
“For to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.”
Nelson Mandela 
Allow them to do what they want.
Allow them to see and realize their mistakes.
Let them know what’s good and bad
Show them that you respect them. 
Let them be free.

*Look forward

Sometimes people do such actions without thinking. They don’t even know what would be the result of each action, which can bother someone else in the future.

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing. The worst thing you can do is nothing.”
Theodore Roosevelt

People must think a thousand times. Then, two things will happen; you can’t hurt anyone, at the same time you respect yourself and others.

*Avoid ones heart on fire

Don’t do such things that can hurt someone else.
“Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.”
Benjamin Franklin 

Avoid backbiting
Avoid being to selfish
Avoid giving pain

Tell them directly what’s the reality of life not buy hurting them; but the way you show respect and love.

*Paint like a star

Live like a model to everyone. Respect can be followed by someone else.
SHINE, make,  Follow and be a STAR.
Don’t let someone respect you because you are the boss, the president, parent or elder than others but let someone respect you of  who you are and the way you show respect to them too. As well as, the way you lead them and teach them, about respect. You can be respected if you are following and showing good deeds. Like a star! ♦ People can look you up ♦

◘ (Photos are not mine)

Lovelots, Bye for now ♥

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